Do Everything in Love

A Grateful Heart

"Do everything in Love"


“”Thank you! for honoring God's plan when you heard the unexpected news of having another child in the family", you loved me unconditionally since then.

Financial stability, protection from harm, unforgettable travels, and educational opportunities were key ingredients for a delightful journey. My heart is filled with unlimited, cherished memories.

You did everything in Love!

When we moved to United States, I toured new horizons with parental guidance and wisdom, embraced diverse, cultural influences in Florida, learned a second language, and viewed LIFE filled with 'countless' possibilities.

You are kind, loving, forgiving and an encouraging parent. You dismissed past mistakes and loved me through the toughest moments. You even hired tutors to help with Algebra, Geometry and Statistics lessons. "Nothing is impossible" was the recurrent message I heard over the years. I am forever grateful for your continued support in the midst of hardships.

You did everything in Love!

As I grew older and faced unfamiliar circumstances, I soon realized how challenging 'daily living' can be...

Neither one of you bailed out in life... recovering from cancer treatments twice and medical emergencies, hearing unpleasant news from family members or friends, living with a debilitating, chronic illness such Parkinson's Disease, re-adjusting family's budget due to changes in international economy were just a few transitions that you both handled gracefully. A positive mindset is K-E-Y. Faith is utmost critical.

"I love you" and genuinely thank both of you for being "a dad and a mom" who do everything in Love!

Each morning, I praise the Lord for blessings;
The blessings of family- having loving parents and siblings who continually shape my life...
The blessings of good health - having physical strength to wake up each morning...
The blessings of career - maintaining an intellectual ability to help others in emotional distress...
The blessings of Faith - embracing discouragement and trusting in the midst of the unknown...
The blessings of Hope - relying on the Lord's promises for a better future...
The blessings of Love - overcoming barriers with someone's help...and the greatest of them all is LOVE!

Most importantly, the blessings of a relationship with Jesus Christ - experiencing an unfailing love each moment, You did everything in Love!

Lord,
I praise You for being my Refuge, Rock, and Hope. You provided the most loving, kind, forgiving parents on Earth. Dad and Mom shared unfailing love, compassion, and offered protection and forgiveness for the past 44+ years! Even though there is geographical distance between us, my folks are always in my heart. Help us think on whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is admirable...I pray for protection, healing and hope for this day. As my parents continue to do everything in Love, help me embrace and honor each moment we spend together. Help us fight the good fight, finish the race and keep our Faith. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

1 Corinthians 16:14 "Do everything in Love"

Relational Fantasies

Emotional purity is an ability to focus on the realities of current circumstances, and to refrain from visualizing the future of a relationship prior to engagement.

The truth is "above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it" Proverbs 4:23.

Character unfolds over time and relationship matures one day at a time. Relationship fantasies deceive the heart, creates confusion and leads to a vulnerable mind-set.

"Would you like to change your last name?", "It would be nice to have classical music in our wedding reception?", these were relevant comments made by Prince Charming during the first month of dating.

He waltzed into my life and I followed his lead unconditionally!

Because Prince Charming initiated relationship fantasies, I soon visualized a lifetime with him and his children. He explored unlimited possibilities for a future together. "We are the perfect match!" I repeatedly shared with friends.

I envisioned myself moving to the country without hesitation. I was mesmerized by his strengths; strong work ethics, and  a compassionate heart. Within forty-five days, an initial bond was created with his children, and a family vacation planned and well-executed.  Unforgettable memories were authored.

I never took the time to establish boundaries much less recognize the truth of current circumstances. We were both engrossed in the future...

Prince Charming was embracing a new career opportunity, and singleness.  I never questioned his readiness for commitment in the midst of recent transition.

My world turned upside down overnight when he walked away! I was in shock for weeks... my heart grieved for months and was quite vulnerable thereafter.

How could he not be ready for a relationship? I ignored the reality of his circumstances...  he was recently divorced! It takes time to heal from divorce, and wisdom to handle post-divorce issues effectively.

Timing plays a critical role in dating without a doubt!


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